Ne-Yo Says He Shares a Custom Alaskan King Bed With 4 Girlfriends He Calls “Wives” – But Admits None Are Legally Married to Him
After going through what he describes as a “very public, very ugly divorce,” Ne-Yo says he rethought his approach to relationships. “I realized that just through being dishonest, I hurt a lot of people,” he explained on Joe & Jada’s podcast.
Today, the R&B singer embraces a polyamorous lifestyle — saying he now shares his life with four women. “I’m currently in a polyamorous relationship. I have four beautiful ladies that move with me on the regular,” he shared.
Ne-Yo clarified that while he refers to them as his “wives,” he is not legally married to any of them. He described how this shift came about:
“I’mma keep it a buck with you. I was married before this, to one woman. Things didn’t go well. I made my mistakes. We got divorced, a lot of people got hurt in the process, and I told myself at that moment I ain’t lying to nobody about nothing ever again.”
Ne-Yo further explained how the polyamorous setup formed:
“I went, ‘Listen, you know I rock with you. I absolutely rock with you. But it ain’t just you.’ … ‘I also rock with her, and her, and her. So what I wanna do is bring this whole thing together.’ If you with it, let’s rock. If you’re not, that’s cool too. No love lost. You go your way and I go mine.”
He also addressed the logistics: all four partners live with him, sleeping on a custom-made Alaskan King bed — “like two California Kings next to each other” — a mattress “you gotta get … made.”
Ne-Yo introduced his four partners publicly in a March Instagram post, nicknaming them Cristina (“Pretty Baby”), Arielle (“Twin Flame”), Moneii (“Phoenix Feather”), and Bri (“Sexy Lil’ Somethin’”).
He’s said that all parties are honest, consenting, and up front about the setup. Reflecting on his past, he admitted:
“I feel like I wasted a lot of time just being dishonest about things, to the point where had I taken this approach initially, I could’ve saved myself a lot of headache and heartache.”
fellas, if you afford this lifestyle, would you consider this type of relationship?
