Haley O’Brien (née Kalil) was married to her ex-husband, former NFL player Matt Kalil, for nearly a decade before they split, and she didn’t hold back while delving into the private details of their divorce. During a Twitch stream in November 2025, she stirred up social media after bringing up the size of her ex’s junk.
“We were trying to do the damn thing and [putting in the work],” Haley said before getting into the graphic details of her former husband’s penis size and their sex life.
Below, learn about Haley and her former marriage to Matt.
Who Is Haley Kalil?
Born and raised in Minnesota, Haley is an influencer and model, best known for her work with Sports Illustrated.
How Long Were Matt Kalil & Ex-Wife Haley Together?
Haley and Matt started dating after he was drafted by the Minnesota Vikings in 2012. They were together for 10 years until their 2022 divorce.
Haley Baylee reveals that she DIVORCED her NFL husband Matt Kalil because of intimacy issues their whole marriage 😬💀
pic.twitter.com/8d59DSjsKT— Killa 🌺 (@KillaKreww) November 4, 2025
Why Did Matt Kalil & Haley Divorce?
In her May 2022 divorce filing, Haley cited “irreconcilable differences” as the reason behind her and Matt’s separation, per Page Six.
However, according to Haley, their split stemmed from an unsatisfactory sex life. During her November 2025 Twitch appearance, the former Sports Illustrated swimsuit model claimed she and the former NFL star divorced because they “tried” everything to salvage their mutual sexual gratification, according to Page Six.
“We were trying to do the damn thing and [putting in the work],” she said. “Deadass … for our whole marriage, deadass,” she continued. “But I was going to try it all. We tried it all: [a] therapist, doctors. Not even lying … Looked up lipo-type s**t. … We’ve tried, impossible unless you’re going to be in tears.”
Saying that was “why it’s kinda funny,” Haley added that it felt like her “life [was] a comedy” and that it “kinda writes itself.” But she then doubled down on her claim that the “biggest factor” in her and Matt’s split was his allegedly small penis size.
“That was the biggest factor,” she said, describing her former husband’s, ahem, basement size as “like .01 percent of the population,” though she still has “love” for her “homie” Matt.
Who Is Matt Kalil’s New Wife?
Although his marriage to Haley didn’t work out, Matt eventually met his current wife, Keilani Asmus, whom he married in April 2024. The spouses welcomed a baby boy toward the end of that year.
Matt and Haley do not share children together.
Did Matt Kalil React to What Haley Said About Their Divorce?
No, at the time of publication, Matt has not publicly commented on his ex-wife’s statements about their past sex life and their divorce.
