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Dear Dharmendra Sir, Fight Hard & Let Us All Feel Ashamed For How We Have Treated You![Opinion]
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Dear Dharmendra Sir, Fight Hard & Let Us All Feel Ashamed That We Waited For Someone’s Passing, Instead Of Praying For His Recovery! [Opinion]

by jummy84 November 13, 2025
written by jummy84

Dear Dharmendra Sir, Fight Hard & Let Us All Feel Ashamed For How We Have Treated You![Opinion]
We All Should Render A Collective Apology To Dharmendra Sir & His Family! (Photo Credit – Instagram)

The media is a hard place to be. You live under a constant pressure of breaking the news. We did it first, we often claim! But there are times when we need to sit down and question our conscience. How far have we come, and how insensitive we are! For the past few days, I have seen the mockery of the life of one of the most celebrated superstars of this country – Dharmendra!

A senior, reputed anchor, offering condolences to his family, a senior artist from the music fraternity singing songs to offer tribute, some reputed members of the fraternity putting up Rest In Peace messages, and all of this while the man we love was struggling and fighting hard, putting up the toughest fight he could, to breathe, to live!

Honestly, I was numb! I was speechless at this eagerness to talk about someone in the past tense, not bothering to know if he struggles. But here’s what surprised me the most – We as human beings were waiting for the news of someone’s death! Like really? How dead should our morals be to wait for the confirmation of someone’s passing away! What was needed was prayers for Dharmendra Sir’s recovery! All he needs is his fans praying for his well-being!

Superstars shower immense love on their fans. They never shy away from crediting their stardom to their fans. But here we are, the so-called fans who waited for a death confirmation, rather than celebrating his will to fight and survive! Honestly, all this added trauma to his family in such a distressing time could have been eased with an apology!

But we turned this into a further circus outside his home and pushed it to a point where Sunny Deol lost his cool at the media! I wonder how they must feel when they see their stressed video from the hospital room, which is being shamelessly circulated, without anyone’s consent, because, yes, a superstar’s life is for public display! Why bother!

While I was numb at all that happened in the past few days, one of my friends pointed out, if someone would have told me that my parents are no more while they are alive, I don’t know, what would I have done to that person, and that hit me so hard! Imagine, the distress we have been causing to someone’s family who is just praying for their father, grandfather, husband, brother, to get well soon, just fight and just live!

Dear Dharmendra Sir,

I know, no apology or sorry can undo what we have done to you and your family in the last few days! But, Sir, you keep fighting to recover and live a healthy life till you can! You fight, Sir, and get well soon, and slap us hard with that fighting spirit so that we can feel ashamed not as professionals but as human beings.

We are a bunch of gossip mongers feeding on stardom and as fans we are a spineless bunch! Once you recover, we will be the same hypocrites who would cheer loudly and praise your fighting spirit. But you fight hard to make us feel ashamed for the basic decency we’ve lost as human beings! We have become so inert, so morally bankrupt, that we wait not for someone’s revival, but for their death. Make us feel ashamed for turning into an obtuse race that now waits for the news of someone’s passing away, rather than waiting for the news of their recovery!

Sorry will never be enough!

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Dear Shah Rukh Khan, Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, Tum Nahi Samjhoge Why I Fell In Love With You 59 Times
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Dear Shah Rukh Khan, Here Are 60 Times I Fell In Love With You & One Reason I Hate You; PS. Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, Tum Nahi Samjhoge!

by jummy84 November 2, 2025
written by jummy84

Shah Rukh Khan, The Brightest Of The Superstars, Turns 59 (Photo Credit – YouTube)

The biggest superstar of the country Shah Rukh Khan celebrates his 60th today with the announcement of his upcoming film King! And I have fallen in love with this new avatar of the superstar. While we eagerly await 2026 to watch this new avatar unfold on screen, we cannot stop celebrating him for being the superstar and the man he is!

One Reason I Hate Shah Rukh Khan!

I haven’t been star-struck enough to ever imagine myself standing outside Mannat to have a glimpse of Shah Rukh Khan. But that does not make me any less of a ‘Jabra Fan’. No, not at all. In fact, I have way too many reasons to love him – in fact, I can narrate 60 exact moments when I fell in love with him! But before that, I have one reason to hate him – SRK made me believe in the non-existent fairy tale love stories. The love stories that speak utter crap at times, but deep down, you root for those stories. He made me a hopeless, delusional romantic at heart and soul!

Shah Rukh Khan is pure love – The man who has made all of us feel special. The man, who is a testimony to the fact that love is magical and the man who makes everyone feel the most special person in this entire Universe, says everyone who meets him.

As the brightest of the stars in the galaxy of Bollywood turns 59 today, here are 59 times I fell in love with him!

1. Pehli Mulaqat

The crush who made me blush. May be!

I first saw him in 1995. On the silver screen, playing Raj to Simran. I was 5, too young to understand love. In fact, too young to understand anything. I just learned to say ABCD, but there was this man whom I was blushing or crushing upon. I don’t know, but probably before ABCD, LOVE came to me!

2. Is This Love?

I was not sure if this was love. But Raj stayed with me in my head. So did Simran. In fact, I sometimes even tried behaving like Simran! Waiting for my Raj, probably Yes, subconsciously, talk about girls and their prince charmings! Phew! Yes, I think I was in love!

3. Hi, Rahul, You Had Me At Aye Haye! Again!

The next Shah Rukh Khan film I had seen was Dil To Pagal Hai. I have great musical acumen, so the film stayed with me for obvious reasons. But the major reason I was glued to it was because Rahul had me at that ‘Aye Haye’!

4. WTF, Anjali Is My Age, But I Love Her Father!

Moving on, I next met Shah Rukh Khan as Rahul again. He had a daughter this time, the same age as mine! Yes, let me process that right now! But I was 8, to consider age differences then. Rahul was mine because in my head, by the end of the film, I thought I was Anjali in some parallel world!

5. Kuch Kuch Hota Hai Rahul…

It took a lot of time to get Rahul out of my head. I was hopelessly in love with him when he sang Kuch Kuch Hota Hai with those perfect dimples and eyes to fall for. Though I was 8, I am sure this was my second love! (My first love was Rishi Kapoor, but we’ll keep that story for some other day, maybe!)

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Shah Rukh Khan In A Still From Kuch Kuch Hota Hai

6. Rahul Indeed Is A Cheater – My first little heartbreak!

Now I was in love with Rahul, only that I was not aware. I loved Anjali as well, and I was ready to give Rahul to her as well. But here was my first heartbreak. Kajol got married to Ajay Devgn, and I was too young to dissect the reel and the real. I felt cheated. I was team Rahul-Anjali all along. I had my first little heartbreak when I came to know that Rahul was Shah Rukh Khan and had a wife called Gauri Khan!

7. Thank You, Ekta Kapoor!

With age and maturity, and with cable TV coming off as a boon, I came to hear the word Shah Rukh Khan more often. There was a girl who was in love with her. Sweety – in a show called Hum Paanch, and the difference between an actor in real and his character, came to me naturally, thanks to Ekta Kapoor’s show. After falling for all the Rajs and Rahuls, I was finally in love with Shah Rukh Khan!

8. I Love You, SRK – Again!

I fell in love with SRK again when I was first gifted an audio cassette of Mohabbatein (remember my musical acumen). On a beautiful cassette cover was the most charming man I had ever seen! And there I was, hopelessly in love, all over again!

9. I Am 10 And Officially Hate A Man Called Narayan Shankar

I was 10 when the trailer for Mohabbatein dropped, and it was all over the Television. An era when trailers had just started creating hype. After I watched Mohabbatein’s trailer, I was very mad at a man called Narayan Shankar, and I wanted to make sure that Shah Rukh Khan won this battle anyhow. My Turu Lub at 10… you see!

10. I Am Very Worried About ‘My Mohabbatein’

However, while I rooted for Mohabbatein, I was told that it was a U/A film and my parents were strict. So, while the film came to my life only when Set Max aired it, I was more in love with Shah Rukh Khan. That was my ‘Channa Mereya‘ moment, I guess!

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Shah Rukh Khan In A Still From Mohabbatein

11. I Am Still Team Rahul – Anjali

Very soon, I met Rahul again! With Karan Johar’s K3G. And OMFG! How does someone look that way? He was the perfect man. Lover, Son, Boyfriend, Brother, Husband – everything. Yes, I wanted him, and I was so ready to change my surname to Raichand in my head. Also, in some parallel world, I think I was Anjali again! Please don’t judge. I just realized that this confession account is turning embarrassing with every new anecdote of mine!

12. Tussi Bade Mazakiya Ho!

People fell in love with Rahul Raichand from Kabhi Khushi Kabhie Gham when he appeared in that Pathaani suit. But he had me at that Tussi Mazakiya Ho. That scene made my stomach have tons of butterflies. I have no idea why!

13. Yes, Rahul, Pyaar Dosti Hai! If You Say So!

So, it was the era of CDs, I guess, when I revisited Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, this time at a better age, probably to realize dialogues like Pyaar Dosti Hai. Shah said it, and I believed it. He taught me the basics of love, Probably for the first time.

14. If Silence Speaks Louder Than Words Could Be Any More Romantic!

Ask anyone about the most romantic scenes in Bollywood, and I can vouch for my claims about loving SRK if any list does not include Kuch Kuch Hota Hai’s ‘baarish scene’ with Rahul and Anjali! He was making me fall in love with him once again, but with a realization that someday, we can have our little moments in silence as well.

15. Aman, The New Love Of My Life

A new character, and another time when I fell in love with Shah Rukh Khan. Kal Ho Naa Ho’s Aman was a knight in shining armor; every damsel in distress needed. Or probably, it was an age when girls loved to have their prince charming lead the way! Or maybe I was just an obese teenager who resonated with Delnaaz’s character but secretly wanted to be Naina and date Aman!

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Shah Rukh Khan In A Still From Kal Ho Naa Ho

16. Why KJO Why? How Can You Let Aman Die?

I guess I cried gallons when Aman died. (Honestly, I still do, though it has been a long time since I watched Kal Ho Naa Ho). But while Aman met Naina on that bridge, I just wanted to be Naina, to some Aman, not understanding the intensity of that scene. It was all about love for me, not having the acumen to understand losses.

17. Thank You, Karan Johar. Thank You Very Very Much!

Breaking this hopping between on-screen and off-screen dilemmas, I fell in love with Shah Rukh Khan, the man, the actor, for the first time, courtesy of Karan Johar. The first time I saw him talking about his personal life. He was suddenly a real person sans the Rahuls and the Amans on that Koffee couch, and I loved him more!

18. Ek Shararat Hone Ko Hai!

After Kal Ho Naa Ho, came an era when Sony or Set Max were officially SRK promoters, it felt. Every day, there was a Shah Rukh Khan film, and every day, I watched some or the other, falling in love with him every single day during that age.

19. Hum To Deewane Ho Gaye Yaar!

For the next few years, Shah Rukh Khan was everywhere, from hosting award shows to TV shows to ad commercials. He was coronated as the King rightfully, and he was making sure his kingdom loves him. So did I!

20. The Man Who Dares To Sing – Checklist. Tick!

Remember, the musical acumen claim of mine? So when I first heard Shah Rukh Khan attempting Apun Bola, Tu Meri Laila in the quirkiest way possible. Well, I was so in love with him that I wanted a man who could sing!

21. Love Which Motivates! I Want To Be Farah Khan To Shah Rukh Khan!

Thanks to Shah Rukh Khan, I was obsessed with films, and interestingly, it developed into an interest and inclination towards filmmaking when I saw Shah Rukh Khan pulling Captain Ram in Main Hoon Na for Farah Khan. While him, singing ‘Kiska Hai Ye Tumko Intezaar’ made me fall for him yet again, this time, I wanted something substantial. I started dreaming of becoming a filmmaker, as masaledar as Farah Khan, to cast Shah Rukh Khan in one of my films!

22. Wo Qaidi Number 786!

I could not take my eyes off Shah Rukh Khan as Veer, sinking in love with him even when he said ‘Main Qaidi Number 786’ in the rugged, old look. The most I fell for him. Check out the scene shared by the official Facebook handle of Yash Raj Films!

 

23. The Man Who Loves The Roots – Checklist. Yes!

When Swades was released, I was in love with Mohan Bhargava, the man who chose his roots over a luxurious life abroad, trying to discover himself, trying to turn the fate of his village, basically just struggling and trying, editing the IM from the Impossible!

24. The Rebound Love

Post Swades, Shah Rukh Khan changed gears in his career, and since I could never stop loving him, I tried to find love in real life, the rebound, as I felt I needed to move on from SRK and not indulge in Dons and Ra.Ones. So, while the love stayed, I put my foot down though!

25. Mera Pehla Pyaar Adhura Reh Gaya Rifat Bi!

I felt lost when I stepped out of Shah Rukh Khan’s aura and style of filmmaking. I tried a lot of Bollywood men, but my ‘Pehla Pyaar’ was too pure to surrender. So, while, I decided to part ways from his films, for the time being, I fell some more in love revisiting his old classics!

26. I Wanted To Swap Places With Farah Khan!

I once again wanted to swap places with Farah Khan when I saw Shah Rukh Khan dancing to Dhoom Tana in Om Shanti Om. Deepika Padukone might have looked dreamy, but Shah Rukh Khan saying “Itni Shiddat Se Maine Tumhe Paane Ki Khwaaish Ki Hai, Ki Har Zarre Ne Mujhe Tumse Milaane Ki Saazish Ki Hai” was another high.

27. That Glimpse In A Rickshaw!

When Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi was announced, the first glimpse was from Haule Haule, where Shah Rukh Khan unveiled Anushka Sharma sitting in a rickshaw. Something was so pure about this scene that I fell in love with Suri Ji, lighting up lives!

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Shah Rukh Khan In A Still Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi

28. Isse Zyada Pyaar Ki Na Mujhe Aadat Hai Naa Zarurat

So I have been loving Shah Rukh Khan since 1995, and Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi made me realize, perhaps, ‘Isse zyada pyaar ki naa mujhe aadat hai, naa hi zarurat.’ However, something drastically changed in the technical sense.

29. Shah Rukh Khan – The Superstar

While I drifted apart from Shah Rukh Khan films, I fell in love with Shah Rukh Khan, the man, thanks to all the media channels and the internet taking a boom. I had a lot to explore about this man, and with every new reveal, I was again in love with him.

30. When He Was Pathaan Way Before Pathaan!

I read somewhere that Karan Johar had to face underworld threats during the screening of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai, and while he was scared to attend the premiere, Shah Rukh Khan, like a true Pathaan, assured Karan Johar’s mother, “I’m a Pathan. Nothing can happen to me, and nothing will happen to your son. He’s like my brother.” A true friend, ready to take a bullet for a friend. How do you not love a man like him?

31. Aww Ek Ladka Aur Ek Ladki Dost Ho Sakte Hain

Now, I was mature enough to segregate on-screen and off-screen romance, and now I was team Shah Rukh Khan-Kajol rather than team Rahul-Anjali. I fell in love with him when he displayed crackling chemistry with her during their interviews, making me realize how genders can never define friendships!

32. The Man Who Respects!

I once came across a picture of Shah Rukh Khan for a magazine cover, sharing a frame with Bollywood Legends Dilip Kumar and Amitabh Bachchan. There is something about this picture that made me fall in love with him. This picture has been viral ever since the shoot happened. It was recently shared by moviedbollywood.

33. The Man Who Is A Friend!

Shah Rukh Khan spoke at lengths about his friendships getting sour in Bollywood, and while he blamed himself for them, he openly admitted his issues. There was an emotional integrity in his confession when he said he couldn’t tell people that he loves them! Oh man, I loved him a little more for making it so real, talking about his vulnerabilities.

34. Just A Glimpse & I Love Him Yet Again!

Shah Rukh Khan and Salman Khan’s ugly fight has been a known story. But they resolved everything, just with a call, maybe coming together for Arpita Khan’s wedding. I had just a little glimpse, and I was drooling over SRK. Here, look at his picture yourself! Also, thanks to fan clubs for keeping a tab on all the possible spottings!

SRK and Salman Khan at Arpita Khan’s wedding reception pic.twitter.com/SHlUTH0bCS

— Shah Rukh Khan Universe Fan Club (@SRKUniverse) April 6, 2015

35. When He Endearingly Said, “Ullu Ke Patthey” To Salman Khan!

Shah Rukh Khan and Salman Khan’s friendship made me fall for the superstar even more. The friendship with no filter. So much so that SRK once schooled Salman, calling him ‘Ullu Ke Patthey’ for not receiving awards. Well, a man who puts friendship above work rivalries. GOLD!

36. The Man Who Is Too Cute To Even Make His ‘Kulla’ Look Cute!

Shah Rukh Khan once had a goofing up session with Abram Khan, which was shared by the YouTube channel of a fan club of SRK. Check out this cute short. How can one not love this man!

37. When I Saw Him Saying ‘Palat,’ Again!

DDLJ was re-released when the film celebrated 1000 weeks, and this time, luckily, I wasn’t 5. I fell in love when Raj said Palat Palat Palat!

38. When He Taught Me “Pyaar Sab Kuch To Nahi Hota?”

Apart from falling for the romance, DDLJ made me realize some things I could understand better now. So I definitely well for a man like Raj who said, “Toh kya hua agar yeh awara tumhe deewano ki tarah pyar karta hai? Toh kya hua? Pyaar sab kuch toh nahi hota na…”

39. When I Saw Him Rolling Out A Carpet For A Legend!

For an award function, I saw Shah Rukh Khan rolling out a red carpet to welcome Dilip Kumar on stage as the legend walked along. Well, talk about chivalry, anyone?

40. When He Admitted He Loves Action Film

Love always sets your partner free. So, while Shah Rukh Khan knew he was the most romantic actor fans fall for, he was honest enough to admit he hated those films and loved action films. Yes, he had so much trust in people who loved him!

41. When I Met Shah Rukh Khan, The Orator!

I met Shah Rukh Khan, the orator, while he delivered a speech at The University of Edinburgh, as he made students believe that anything you dream will turn true since a man like him rules a country as the most romantic hero ever!

42. When I Read His Love Story With Gauri Khan

When I learned about instances from Shah Rukh Khan & Gauri Khan’s Hindu-Muslim wedding, I was overwhelmed. While we are hopelessly in love with him, he is hopelessly in love with Gauri!

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Shah Rukh Khan & Gauri Khan Married In 1991

43. When He Enjoyed Aamir Khan’s ‘Kutta’ Comment

As we all know, Aamir Khan once blogged, “Shah Rukh mere pair chaat raha” later explaining Shah Rukh to be his caretaker’s dog’s name. Guess what the Pathaan actor replied? He said, as quoted by several tabloids, “I have never bothered about it because I also say a lot of things in fun, and I think I am, also maybe, stressing somebody else out. I don’t get stressed when friends pass comments like this. Actually, I enjoyed it.” How can one not love this calm person in the era of Bigg Boss fights!

44. His Last One With Yash Chopra

Yash Chopra’s last interview with Shah Rukh Khan, where they promoted Jab Taj Hai Jaan, is so endearing that it seems like a father-son conversation. Well, making the right kind of tribute to a man who shaped his career, that is Shah Rukh Khan for you, Ladies and Gentlemen!

45. The Family Man – Living With A Superstar

A documentary that revolved around Shah Rukh Khan, his home, Mannat, and his family was aired. It was so beautifully shot with so many heartwarming revelations that you can’t help but fall in love with SRK.

46. When He Bear-Hugged Sunil Grover

Shah Rukh Khan, along with his Dilwale team, were on TKSS, where Sunil Grover painted himself orange during a stand-up as Dr. Mashoor Gulati. Shah Rukh Khan gave him a bear hug, not getting concerned about getting dirty or his expensive clothes getting soiled in the paint. That is SRK, a true artist who appreciates others.

47. When He Was Teary-Eyed Looking At His Journey In 1 Minute 48 Seconds

It was his appearance during Star Plus’ show Dance+, during which a tribute was given to the actor. He was so teary-eyed and overwhelmed that it was an awww moment to watch him. Check out the clip.

48. Uff The Humour!

Every time Shah Rukh Khan cracks a joke, he hits it spot on. Humor and love definitely go hand in hand!

49. When He Was The Perfect Husband To The Bollywood Wife!

Netflix’s show ‘The Fabulous Lives Of Bollywood Wives’ dropped a bomb when it featured Shah Rukh Khan and Gauri Khan, hosting the four regulars on the show. A lot of stories were shared, and while he played the perfect host, the stories will make you fall for him.

50. The Struggler, The Believer, The Achiever, The Ruler

His rags-to-riches story is an inspiration. A man who was an outsider struggled and made his way through this industry only to end up ruling it. Who doesn’t love a successful struggle story!

51. The Adab, and The Adaab!

Every Eid and Birthday, Shah Rukh Khan makes sure to rise to the highest point of his bungalow, offering a glimpse to his fans with the perfect Adaabs. Well, talk about Tehzeeb and Adabs.

52. The Kapil Sharma Story!

Kapil Sharma once gatecrashed a party at Mannat, and while he wanted to escape without getting noticed, Shah Rukh Khan noticed him and welcomed him. Kapil apologized for not being an invitee, and SRK asked him to relax, saying nobody knew he wasn’t invited. The comedian makes sure to tell this story very often!

53. When He Turned His Own Fan But Not A Narcissist!

I turned a Jabra fan when Shah Rukh Khan delivered a Fan. Though the film did not perform well, I fell for him one more time, and by this time, I cannot believe I have reached this count!

54. When He Chose To Maintain Silence

It was a very bad time for Aryan Khan when he was involved in the drugs case. While a lot was said and reported, Shah Rukh Khan chose to maintain a golden silence, letting the court take its route. A man of morals and dignity indeed!

55. When Finally ‘Karan-Arjun’ Aayenge Happened

Shah Rukh Khan and Salman Khan finally reunited in Pathaan, and this reunion glimpse was enough to make me fall in love with him one more time.

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Shah Rukh Khan & Salman Khan In A Still From Pathaan

56. When He Roared Like A True Baap!

He roared, ‘Bete Ko Haath Lagaane Se Pehle Baap Se Baat Kar’, in Jawan, settling the score in the most suave manner. Uff!

57. When He Reclaimed His Throne As The King

In 2024, Shah Rukh Khan reclaimed his box office throne as the King with two 1000 crore blockbusters worldwide. And while I celebrate his achievements with a broad smile on my face, his upcoming film King again makes me eager.

58. When He Accepted That National Award With A Smile!

Everyone was enraged when Shah Rukh Khan was finally honored with the National Award for his film Jawan. After so many years! When he could have easily won it for Swades. But being the man he is, he accepted the award like any citizen with utmost grace and humility!

59. When He Went All Out To Promote Aryan Khan’s Debut!

Shah Rukh Khan went all out to promote Aryan Khan’s debut The Ba***ds of Bollywod. Look at him wearing that hand support with the logo of Ba***ds and hosting the event like the coolest dad ever!

60. I Fell In Love With Him, Again RN! Writing This Piece!

I know you won’t believe this, but this is true. I told you I am a hopeless romantic.

PS: Happy Birthday, SRK!
PPS: I Love You!

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Nishijima Hidetoshi, Gwei Lun-Mei, Mariko Tetsuya Talk 'Dear Stranger'
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Nishijima Hidetoshi, Gwei Lun-Mei, Mariko Tetsuya Talk ‘Dear Stranger’

by jummy84 September 22, 2025
written by jummy84

Following the explosive violence of “Destruction Babies,” Japanese filmmaker Mariko Tetsuya has pivoted to explore a different kind of devastation in “Dear Stranger” — the quiet collapse of a marriage under the weight of unspoken truths and cultural displacement.

The drama, which had its international premiere at the Busan International Film Festival, stars Nishijima Hidetoshi (Oscar-winning “Drive My Car”) and Gwei Lun-Mei (“Black Coal, Thin Ice”). Set against the backdrop of New York, the film follows Kenji (Nishijima), a Japanese professor desperately seeking tenure, and Jane (Gwei), a Taiwanese-American puppeteer struggling to balance motherhood with her artistic identity. When their young son Kai goes missing, the couple’s carefully constructed life begins to unravel.

For Mariko, whose previous work “Destruction Babies” earned him the Golden Leopard for Best Emerging Director at Locarno, the shift to emotional rather than physical violence was sparked by his return to Japan during the pandemic. “The starting point was on the plane returning to Japan after a year living in the U.S., when a national state of emergency was declared,” Mariko explains. “The world suddenly changed and was engulfed in uncertainty, and I began to think about the family — the smallest unit of society.”

The director deliberately moved away from the “absurd violence” of his earlier work to focus on “the tragedy of drifting apart precisely because they care for each other.”

Central to the film’s visual and thematic language is the motif of ruins, both literal and metaphorical. Kenji lectures on the difference between Japanese static views of ruins versus Western dynamic interpretations and carries the memory of past earthquakes. “For Kenji, who studies ruins, the collapse of his own family into ruins marked both a beautiful and fleeting beginning,” Mariko notes. “I set this as the backbone of the screenplay and built the themes of the story around it.”

The ruins metaphor extends to Jane’s puppet performances in abandoned theaters, where larger-than-life puppets become extensions of her suppressed emotions. Working with Blair Thomas, Mariko developed choreography that allowed the puppetry to serve as Jane’s emotional outlet. “For Jane’s character, it was essential to show both her passion for puppetry and her conflict in balancing it with family life,” the director explains.

The film represents a true international co-production between Japan, Taiwan and the U.S., with filming in New York, editing in Taiwan, and a multinational cast and crew. For Mariko, the experience reinforced cinema’s power as a universal language. “I approached filmmaking with that ambiguity in mind,” he says regarding the challenges of multilingual communication. “Since the staff and cast came from different languages and cultures, our ongoing communication naturally became reflected in the film itself.”

Nishijima brings his characteristic intensity to Kenji, a man whose academic arrogance masks deep insecurity and desperation. “I wanted to portray Kenji as someone who is doing his best to live though imperfect — a character that reflects most of us,” the actor explains. Nishijima, who has built a career spanning Japanese and international productions from “Drive My Car” to Apple TV+’s “Sunny,” filmed in New York with a small, multinational cast and crew.

“Through this experience, I was reminded that film itself is a kind of universal language, and when everyone shares a strong passion to create something meaningful, it can take shape in ways that don’t rely on language,” he reflects.

Gwei Lun-Mei delivers an equally nuanced performance as Jane, a woman caught between her artistic ambitions and maternal responsibilities. The Taiwanese actor, who has worked across multiple film industries, found particular resonance in Jane’s struggle with cultural displacement. “Having studied abroad myself, I’ve felt that truly settling and being recognized by people from another culture is very difficult,” she says.

The puppet sequences became crucial for expressing Jane’s interior life. “The puppet scenes were extremely important for Jane. On one hand, they represented her passion; on the other, they were like another soul,” Gwei explains.

At its core, “Dear Stranger” interrogates the nature of love itself — particularly the gap between feeling and expression, intention and understanding. For Mariko, the question was sparked by photographer Masafumi Sanai’s assessment that he had “no affection, but having love” when they worked together on “From Miyamoto to You.”

“For me, love exists in cinema,” Mariko says. “It’s not an easily understandable emotion — it accumulates quietly and surely, through countless human connections. It arises so naturally from passion that it feels almost embarrassing to put into words, yet it’s also fragile, as if it might disappear if left unspoken.”

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Dear Media President Paige Port on Her Daily Routine and What It Really Takes to Create a Hit Podcast
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Dear Media President Paige Port on Her Daily Routine and What It Really Takes to Create a Hit Podcast

by jummy84 August 26, 2025
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Listen up! Dear Media president Paige Port and DITL (a.k.a. Day in the Life) host is spilling all the secrets to building a top-charting podcast. 

While the entertainment expert, who has interviewed Jordin Sparks, Harry Hamlin, and Hannah Brown, is usually uncovering celebrities’ daily routines, ET flipped the script to see how Port manages her own busy schedule.

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“During the week, I’m up around 6 a.m. and I start the day with a workout. I usually do a mix of F45, obé, and Form before shifting into mom mode,” she shares. “My husband gets our two kids up and out of bed, and by the time I get home, it’s time to get them ready for school.”

From there, the entrepreneur heads to the network’s office in West Hollywood, California, where she helps A-listers like Khloé Kardashian, Scheana Shay, and Kristin Cavallari turn their ideas into hit shows.

“My day is typically spent in meetings with our talent and team,” Port notes.

Khloé in Wonder Land

As for why many stars are flocking to this format: “A podcast gives them the time and space to share their stories in their own words. It creates a direct, intimate connection with their audience that feels both unfiltered and intentional.”

Whether Port is the behind the mic, or behind-the-scenes, she believes authenticity is essential for making engaging content.

“People want depth and connection in a way that fits into their daily lives. … It’s all about creating a space that feels warm, inviting, and curious,” she shares.

Dear Media

“If you’re truly interested, that energy translates and makes the conversation more engaging. … When guests feel listened to and not rushed, they open up and share the most candid moments.”

As for other tips to flourish in the space, Port says consistency is key.

“The shows that succeed are the ones that show up week after week and build trust with their audience over time. Also, good audio and video quality always helps.”

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